Winners have to do all the work. Is it really worth it to be the winner? Think about it when engaging in confrontation and strife. Most of us can only see as far as the victory dance. What about the next day? Who is responsible for the cleanup, maintenance, governance, and management of the acquisition (even if it is only ideas that you have won in a verbal argument) from now on? The winner is responsible. Did the winner really think about this? You cannot win and then just walk away. Winning has obligations and responsibilities. Sometimes it is much better to be the vanquished or those who surrendered—especially if the winner brings wealth, talent, and new skills to the table. It’s all about living a good life. It’s not all about winning!

The true warrior thinks further into the future than most people. Yes, the true warrior actually considers the ramifications of winning and losing in battle. True warriors cast a wide net and consider potential unintended consequences. As a result, they do not often engage in confrontation. The true warrior does not just surge into battle at the slightest provocation. No, the true warrior chooses his or her battles very carefully, and gives full consideration to the big picture of the war itself. Should battles be won or lost? What is the best outcome? Who should really be the victor? Can that really be strategically supported? The true warrior knows and understands that it is all about the quality of living and not about the victories.

You are warriors. With the right battles, and the best victors, the world can be made a better place for everyone. Pick your battles strategically, and you will enjoy the best of all of the possible outcomes. So it has been written.